Overcome the Fear of Abandonment – Rapid Transformational Therapy®️ | Marisa Peer
Fear of abandonment, that those closest to you will leave you, can be a cause of huge anxiety. There are different causes—most …
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February 1, 2026
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Most of the video is describing the reasons why with less about how to heal
At 74, I have just realised that the fear of abandonnent was post probable the origin of the depression since adolescence . After being rejetée by friends and family for something I dis not even do. Which of course accentuated the émotion.
Can you imagine, I noticed that I even felt rejected lately when my cat was leaving my lap. 😊
Aware of it but could not help it.
Lately I decided to get rid of a deep sadness. Not knowing how I would do, it came to my consciousness where it came from.
Few minutes ago, I found your video and as you spoke, tears came to my eyes.
It was spot on.
So unhappy and depressed the past days I had ask the universe to help me.
And there you are!
I know that having identify the origin of my pains, my futur is going to change. Becoming aware of those feelings I xill let them go.
I will listen to your video again tonight. GRATITUDE and ❤❤❤
Both of my parents are alive, I've been in an abusive toxic family. But I never suffered a loss of a parent, I don't know from where is my fear of abandonment coming from. I wanna start healing it. Pls reply and guide me,?
My anxiety gets so strong that I’m
Constantly vomiting when I’m
Triggered .. 🙁
This is such a helpful video. Thank you for uploading to YouTube. I associate abandonment with very powerful feelings that words may not always describe. I think the different approach can help and it's a matter of seeing the world as being there to gain, rather than to lose.
From a theoretical angle, i understand everything Marisa is saying about needing connection. But if this is the case, how come men need to withdraw, how come people who are stressed feel better when they are alone, how come the whole world is moving towards social media rather than friends and porn rather than relationships? people seem to prefer disconnection if they have a choice.
I have had RTT few weeks ago with a recording to listen to for a month is this treatment take while to work before you see results 😊😊
I can live. I will live. I do live. I am alive. I did it. 🎉
Wow, I loved that! Thank you!💖
This fear of banishment/abandonment cause people pleasing and codependency 😢 And those are just 2 things it does, beside low self esteem and self worthiness.
The emotional abandonment is an eye opener. My dad and mom got divorced when I was 4 or so. He still maintained a place in my life but was demanding, controlling, wanting time with us, yet occasionally abusive, emotionally unreliable and flakey. So he was "still there" but not really accessible as a safe person. I felt totally emotionally abandoned. It's been hard sometimes to reckon with it because I will tell myself "but he didn't just leave…he said he loved me…" but then he would be erratic and send mixed messages. Whenever I get mixed messages in relationships, I clam up or want to protect myself, yet I also wait around hoping it will change. It was all so confusing. I love the idea that I won't die if I'm abandoned. I may be sad but I won't die. That's what it all comes down to. Helps me get in touch with the grief that my situation with my dad really was painful and not my fault. AND, it's in the past. Trying really hard not to bring those triggers into the present…
I decrete: I am ONE WITH GOD I can never be abandoned!
It's better my co dependence. But this fear is too deep. I was a abandoned by my mother who left me out to a tyrannical choleric heavy Alkoholiker who abused me physically and verbally in his mind black outs, as later he couldn't recall it anymore.
She wasn't better, she she abandoned me emotionally was never for me there never cared abd listened my problems. Ever since no man has cared for me and leaving me it's less painful than this ignorance and no responding to my questions, no keeping promises, etc. This whole parental neglectance like no caring about my needs either, if I'm cold or a handyman should be called. I'm 42 and still struggling to get my needs met. That's the best you could do for you. Ask yourself when your abandoning yourself and fight off your inner ego critic
I was never loved or helped all the way through my life … relationships fail I’ve been a single mum to 4 kids all of my life since a teenager which I have given my whole world as I believe parent should do ?? no help or support I’m in my 40s settling for bad relationships /low worth please let this help me and bring pure joy and happiness
You are the light I've bea eeyn looking for, I've followed you for yrs,,, thank you so much xxx
I have been anandoned by my 'familiry'. Abondenment. Is real
Both parents abandoned me.
Thank you ❤️
So me my ex left me two years ago and I still struggle. I started dating someone else who dumped me a few days ago over text. Honestly it’s so hard
So right to the point! Sounds like my story..
You are amazing Marisa . I wish I could teach like u