I wish I’d been told this when I started boxing



I’ll be sharing a personal story about overcoming fear to achieve success in Olympic boxing. It’s a narrative I’ve never shared …

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48 thoughts on “I wish I’d been told this when I started boxing

  1. It takes some grit to step in the ring just you, a referee, and an opponent, that you may know nothing about. Could be a life long gym ringer, with 3 amateur fight in the books. Gravitate towards it because, teammates can let you down, vice versa

  2. you know what I do, I let fear be with me and mike tyson said this a lot too (I know I ain't mike tyson) but fear is supposed to be your friend it let's you kind of tell you your weaknesses so you avoid the weaknesses or get better, fear is supposed to be your friend because when you get in ring you start to realise that there is really not that much of emotion, other than focus, maybe a lot of anger, frustration and all of that, and fear, fear will always be there, you are suposed to conquer it but not by being fearless, it's exactly like bravery still doing it even tho you fear something, it's hard to explain but believe me you need fear

  3. This is such a powerful video. I often psyche myself out before every sparring match. But now visualizing every detail up to and including the fight – this is key for me now.

  4. I raced moto x up until my mid twenties. Visualization is a great tool. I miss that feeling of getting on the line with 39 other racers. Right before heading to the line I always got that nervous feeling. But that turned into adrenaline at the gate. I wasn’t the best. But my goal was always get in the top 5 which I consistently did.

  5. I am just getting into boxing. I had only two trainings so far and it is so different and distant from everything that I’v done in my life up to this point that I have no clue how to approach it.

    But I have to say, Tony is like my personal coach. Extremely wise, takented, passionate and well spoken. Tony you are a legend! I am really glad I stumbled across your channel. Thank you for sharing your stories and experiences. Thanks to you, I might keep doing this, because you are such an inspiration. What a man! Cheers from Czech Republic🫶🏽❤️🙌🏼

  6. When I met my coach for the first time he was so surprised when he asked how much I weighed and at the time I was training for a half marathon but always lifted as well and at 5 foot nine at 135 pounds with long legs and arms short torso. He said my body strength and endurance was very impressive. But my overthinking and constantly second guessing my movements as he taught me visually and I just couldn’t get it! Then at the second one on one class he said close your eyes and I will move your body. After he did that he said that I am a tactile learner. He told me that my body had the conditioning of a professional athlete but my own self doubt and the constant overthinking is going to be the toughest thing to control and he changed his whole teaching method to accommodate me. So since he knew that I was a huge Dragon Ball Z fan he told to either be like Vegeta or Goku. I said vegeta at first and we tried inboxing but I accidentally gave him a shovel punch the was way too strong for to use against a seasoned fighter and my coach and he said if I meant to hit that hard because even with the torso protection I hurt him and it upset me to the point I was in tears because he helped me not just to fight but also helped me through the grief of losing my best friend in my arms as well as my friend recently being murdered. He said that if I used my full strength I could knock out someone with just body shots. I still wasn’t really able to comprehend that and I said well I don’t want to hurt anyone lol. So we switched to ultra instinct goku mentality with counter punches and that was the only way I could feel comfortable with boxing. Coach Reyes allowed me to grow not just as boxer but more importantly as a person. I still practice boxing everyday and I still try to keep in touch with him as best I can. Thank you Tony for sharing your emotional story of what was going through your mind as you were getting ready for a fight. I like this video the best so far because you share your feelings about self doubt. It has inspired me to contact my coach and see what I need to do to just have one amateur boxing match like I set out to do 3 years ago. My mental health is at a much better level now and even though I just got diagnosed with IIG and IGM Lyme disease on Wednesday I will follow through with my original goal while dealing with the long course antibiotic treatment. Thank you for your genuine personality and relatable story of self doubt

  7. Thank you for the great tutorial and insight with visualization. Now that you’ve gone through what happened when you were fighting and your opponent is picking up all these extra points. What do you think you should’ve done differently?

  8. The reason i respect you is because youre candid as fuck. You can see and admit any weaknesses and didnt badmouth the other guy when you lost.
    To me this is a no showpony ego driven bullshit proper champion.
    Thanks for your videos too mate.

  9. There is a critical difference between "fear" and being "afraid." Fear is a natural, rational reaction to potential danger. Old Paratrooper saying" If the guy in front of you or behind isn't fearful, get away from him. He's complacent and complacency kills." The adrenaline dump makes you Superman for a few moments. Go with it.

  10. Very good Mr.Jeffries,there's alot of places the fighter goes right before a fight in his head that none fighters will ever know.belive it or not when was coming to the ring before a fight I would think of Christmas when I was a kid it would slow my heart rate,give me a little inner calm and make me focus a little more..watched ya fights T.J. ,you throw them hands pretty dam good dude!

  11. Great story Tony! You had me in there with you, feeling the way you described. Youre a good storyteller!! Pls share more.
    I always did the visualization in bodybuilding and powerlifting competition. I could see myself winning the trophy, I felt the trophy in my hands, I saw my name on the plaque. I always won!!

  12. Tony you nailed… You have the courage to speak about a loss in this way …I know what it means… i felt that way… So it's very encouraging to hear and see an honourable man who speaks true experience … actually about his loss…not just bullshit about inspiration and etc… please share more videos like this! Stay safe and strong ❤

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