How to Handle TOXIC and NEGATIVE People in YOUR Life | Marisa Peer
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February 22, 2026
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They have nothing nice to say about anyone, it is exhausting being around them. The people closest to them get the absolute worst of them. The only choice is to get away from them. Then you have to ask yourself why did I put up with it for so long.
I always thought I had been living with a narcissist, but mine did have a group of females he treated very different and still does made me look like lier
Hi, can you do a video on adult bullying, how to stand up to it and how not to believe any name calling insults people make about you?
Great❤ May I ask what to say if someone you love and find beautiful say they are ugly? Many thanks 🙂
They are more dangerous the older they get …i have never seen a narcissist ever get less dangerous with age…. only more fatal…
Your life/ children's life are in danger…..
Please…. consider my advice
My agenda is this …to save your life and your childrens .
All narcissistics are very physically dangerous….they have zero impulse control. Filled with hatred/ rage….hate everyone under that smile, anger…
Run immediately
It's not worth your life or childrens….
No contact is your only safety option….they have a high fatality rate .. especially again their spouse/ children….
And I'm an optimistist by nature….
Prison Emergency medical Provider ER
and Psych……..2O YRS
Thank you madam Marisa peer, I love you once again thank you for your good teachings God bless you.
Very good video
😂excatly they wanna make you feel bad not worthy my daughter loves to destroy my work or my peace😂😊 my mother is horrible on make me feel wrong she does all that all thé time😂. But now I dont react😂
My Dad always said, I don't change and I don't apologize. And you know what, he was right, he didn't change and didn't apologize. Believe them. It's not easy but you really do need to get on with your own life and accept how they are, because they really don't think there's anything wrong with them – it's always someone else. It's sad, but very true. You aren't to blame, it's not your fault they are who they are and you can't fix it or them. Like my therapist said to me by our second session, they have faulty wiring. Brain damage.
One thing I've noticed with narcissists is they refuse to go to therapy. When someone tells me they would never go under any circumstances, it's a red flag for me.
UNHAPY PEOPLE
THEY'RE DONT
HAVE NO COMENT NOTING
TO SAY .
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HAPPY PEOPLE
HAVE ALL WAY
GOOD SMAIL THEIRE ARE VERY HAPPY.
You mentioned in your video where some-one says "I look awkful". What is the best way to respond to this?
Why make exudes for them and hand around to endure when you could do what you want I’m your life and focus on that and good people in your life and if you don’t have any find some
Some parents are too toxic to stay in contact with , they can totaly mess you up and your life up ! Better off on your own sometimes , it’s a case by case basis
This is so eye opening Marisa!! My beautiful boy cat Louis was run over and his back broken and I felt so devastated and I feel guilty to this day that I didn't let him in as I went to bed early and I couldn't find him 😢 I realise that I've been doing this behaviour! OMGosh I'm stopping this behaviour as of now!! Thank you so much for this revelation xxx❤
I think Imu healed my own narcissism with your RTT therapy because narcissism was trauma induced, and I healed the trauma. I now cry, and I never used to. I use was hurt statements instead of lashing out.
This is TERRIBLE advice -if I took it, I'd leave this video immediately since I find it narcissistic and offensive. Let me explain: the title is misleading. "How to handle toxic or negative people" when it's not a way to handle them at all, but to LEAVE them! Are you kidding?! How is that a helpful "way"? How is that a METHOD of dealing? That's a method of AVOIDANCE. It also is a license to sling around the "Narcissist" label, while simultaneously (narcissistically) giving yourself a pass on the same behaviors. What HUMAN doesn't want to defend themselves or not look "wrong"? Who DOESN'T try to self-protect? It's a most basic of human behaviors. Calling that person "narcissistic" because of an avoidance of taking blame, is akin to calling you a chicken because of an avoidance of having tough conversations with people in your life. It's just name-calling with fancy labels. Instead, you could give REAL advice where women who listen to you can become Victors in their lives rather than Victims of their circumstances. And we don't get there by just leaving people and identifying ourselves as victims. We are the "Architect of our Response" Viktor Frankel (survivor of the Holocaust Prison Camps) said. "not the victim of our circumstances". You mentioned wives who have kids and a mortgage and are married – these are precious lives (including our own) that deserve to be preserved and fought for! We have to put tools in the hands and mouths of women to overcome, not avoid, to be mindful and artful in how we choose to perceive our situation and be masters of filtering our responses to them. This is empowerment.
Judging is same as criticising . Acceptance is a standard
Narcissist are obsessive idealistic ,lack of self esteemed and stubborn . Love yourself
After spending thanksgiving with my mother, I needed this. Thank you so much! 🙏🏼