The problem is the constant social situations with adults gets me pretty annoyed there’s always a a lot of doctors around cause my dad’s a technician for dental
I remember reading somewhere that holding eye contact is unpleasant from the biological perspective. Thats just something animals do when assarting dominance, fighting between each other (for example like cats) and so on. Therefore i belive that cultures that dont try to hold eye contact have a way more logical position in this sense.
If you need eye contact tips, just stare down cyclists, cause they probably won’t get off their bikes to ask, and you’ll likely still feel the same way with them👍🏼
Yo it's really helped me to be more confident. I just tried this steps whole week. First days were really hard but im not give up on it. Thanks man, you helped a lot
My tip for practising is to make an eye contact with people that pass you on the street. And if you feel like it, give them a smile. Helps you notice that people are less malicious than you think they are. Most will smile back at you. You may be scared of their expression, but just look and you'll see they aren't what you expect.
Eye contact is really important, when I met my gf’s dad he said I had better eye contact then people who pitch him ideas at his job, like that stuff totally works ong
I found a nice way to practice eye contact is just looking at your teachers eyes at school during lessons even when they are not looking at you and when they look at you just keep it for like 2 more seconds and break it because you dont want to seem more powerful than your teachers, which may lead to them linking you with negative emotions which may reflect in your grades and relations with teachers (dont try to be more powerful than people above you. Its somewhere in the book „48 laws of power” I belive)
I find eye contact uncomfortable because I feel like everyone is judging me. If you relate, just remember that everyone is a weirdo that wonders the same thing. Suddenly, it's not so daunting. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves to care about judging you.
What if you do all of these already and have been for years but still seems like people are afraid/intimidated by me, im nice and honest and i always make people feel like they can talk to me. I just assume people are just scarey nowadays
some more about eye contact: break eye contact every so often for a second to break the tension, so it doesnt look like youre staring at them. slightly raise your eyebrows to show that youre listening as well
Now do it on a woman
Hands are really important for communication
ME:🖕🏿
The problem is the constant social situations with adults gets me pretty annoyed there’s always a a lot of doctors around cause my dad’s a technician for dental
Dawg I’m too autistic for this
Thank you I gained the confidence to ask out my crush and she said yes 🙂
This was very wholesome
I remember reading somewhere that holding eye contact is unpleasant from the biological perspective. Thats just something animals do when assarting dominance, fighting between each other (for example like cats) and so on. Therefore i belive that cultures that dont try to hold eye contact have a way more logical position in this sense.
Everyone I look at someone’s eyes while there talking to me it feels like I’m staring right into there soul
Trick to i eye contact look in his eyes but look right and left sometimes don t just stare in his soul
If you need eye contact tips, just stare down cyclists, cause they probably won’t get off their bikes to ask, and you’ll likely still feel the same way with them👍🏼
Worked for me
“look them in the eyes it makes them understand what you’re saying better”
nah i get too self aware and forget what they say instantly 💀
mate i just found out ur channel a few days ago and all i would say u earned my respect and Sub
Bro is talking to himself.
Body language
Eye contact
Posture
Dont talk too fast
I cant keep eye contact with anyone i will end up by looking to the floor
I have a problem because keeping eye contact doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable but the people that I speak to always look away.
Me watching this with my hand in my pocket 💀
Dads be like but with the belt 💀💀😭😭😭😭
even tho I keep eye contact, they always look away (maybe they thought I was staring at them or weird)
I like how he had all 3 problems at the very beggining
Yo it's really helped me to be more confident. I just tried this steps whole week. First days were really hard but im not give up on it. Thanks man, you helped a lot
Brooo🎉
My tip for practising is to make an eye contact with people that pass you on the street. And if you feel like it, give them a smile. Helps you notice that people are less malicious than you think they are. Most will smile back at you. You may be scared of their expression, but just look and you'll see they aren't what you expect.
What if its crowd? Or more of a classroom?
About the pockets it's just really cold at times
Eye contact goes straight out the window when its pretty girl😂
Surprisingly I don't have no problem with communications
Eye contact is really important, when I met my gf’s dad he said I had better eye contact then people who pitch him ideas at his job, like that stuff totally works ong
I blame eye contact on autism. I will get it down soon though
I am autistic and i must say looking people in the eyes is realy hard
This guy just pops out of nowhere and tells the most valuable shit anyone ever needed, straight up no and bs 🗿🙏
When I make eye contact ppl get creeped out as I stare into their soul , I’ve never met someone who makes eye contact it’s weird
I took my hands out my pocket, I’m still shy and not confident either
I found a nice way to practice eye contact is just looking at your teachers eyes at school during lessons even when they are not looking at you and when they look at you just keep it for like 2 more seconds and break it because you dont want to seem more powerful than your teachers, which may lead to them linking you with negative emotions which may reflect in your grades and relations with teachers (dont try to be more powerful than people above you. Its somewhere in the book „48 laws of power” I belive)
I find eye contact uncomfortable because I feel like everyone is judging me. If you relate, just remember that everyone is a weirdo that wonders the same thing. Suddenly, it's not so daunting. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves to care about judging you.
bro eye contact is so awkward
I can finally talk to my grandma properly
hello
posture is important too
its very akward to keep my hands out of my pockets
What if you do all of these already and have been for years but still seems like people are afraid/intimidated by me, im nice and honest and i always make people feel like they can talk to me. I just assume people are just scarey nowadays
Bro you missed yo pierre
some more about eye contact: break eye contact every so often for a second to break the tension, so it doesnt look like youre staring at them. slightly raise your eyebrows to show that youre listening as well
*Talk slowly and calm*
People from Chile: 💀
I hate doing eye contact. I feel like I’m being really creepy. Just looking at someone’s eyeballs.
Dalit I is really one of the best guys out there.
im just realizing how hardnit is to talk with my hands like what positions do i put them in
I wish i learnt this 🎉 tips when i was in high school
Rule 4: Just stop fapping